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English: Complaints & Solving Problems

Cover: English complaints and problems — this isn't working, there's a problem with my order, could you replace it, I'd like a refund
Short answer

To complain in English, soften the start ('I'm sorry to bother you, but…'), say the problem plainly ('This isn't working / There's a problem with…'), then say what you want ('Could you replace it?'). Keep it calm; escalate in small, polite steps only if needed.

Level: B1. Things go wrong everywhere — a broken item, a wrong bill, a late delivery. In English the trick is not to be louder but to be clearer and calmer: soften the opening, name the problem, then say what you want. This lesson gives you the fixed phrases so a complaint sounds firm but polite, and so you get the result instead of an argument.

By the end of this page you can…

…open a complaint politely, describe a problem clearly, ask for a fix (refund, replacement, repair), and escalate one calm step at a time if the first answer is no.

Step 1 — Open softly

A hard opening (“You sold me a broken phone!”) puts the other person on the defensive. English complaints usually start with a softener, so the listener wants to help you.

  • I’m sorry to bother you, but… — the all-purpose opener.
  • Excuse me, I think there’s been a mistake. — for bills and orders.
  • I’m afraid I have a problem with… — afraid here means “I regret saying this,” not fear.

Step 2 — Say the problem plainly

After the softener, say exactly what is wrong in one clear sentence. Learn these frames whole:

Frame Example
This isn’t working. The remote isn’t working.
There’s a problem with… There’s a problem with my order.
It hasn’t … yet. My parcel hasn’t arrived yet.
I was charged (twice / too much). I was charged twice for one coffee.
… is faulty / broken / damaged. The screen is cracked.

The present perfect with yet is useful here — it says something was expected but has not happened. See present perfect with just, yet and already for the full rule.

Step 3 — Say what you want

A complaint without a request is just a story. End with a polite request so the person knows how to fix it. Use Could you…?, Would it be possible to…? or I’d like…, please.

  • Could you replace it, please?
  • Would it be possible to get a refund?
  • I’d like to exchange this for a different size.

For the grammar of these polite forms, see requests with can and could, could for polite past and would like.

Step 4 — Escalate calmly

If the first answer is no, go up one small step at a time. Stay polite — a calm voice gets further than a loud one.

  • Is there anything you can do? (ask once more)
  • Could I speak to the manager, please? (ask for someone senior)
  • I’d like to make a formal complaint. (put it in writing)

Common mistakes

  • ❌ You broke my order. → ✅ There’s a problem with my order. (Blame the problem, not the person.)
  • ❌ I want refund. → ✅ I’d like a refund, please. (Add a and a polite frame.)
  • ❌ It doesn’t work since two days. → ✅ It hasn’t worked for two days. (Use for + length, not since.)
  • ❌ Give me the manager. → ✅ Could I speak to the manager, please? (A bare order sounds rude.)
  • ❌ I’m boring with this service. → ✅ I’m bored / frustrated with this service. (Boring describes the thing, bored describes you.)

A short conversation

Customer: Excuse me, I’m sorry to bother you, but there’s a problem with my coffee. Server: Oh? What’s wrong? Customer: I ordered a decaf, but this one is normal, and I was charged twice. Server: I’m so sorry about that. Let me make you a fresh decaf and fix the bill. Customer: Thank you. Could I also get a receipt for the correct amount? Server: Of course. Again, I apologise for the mix-up.

Usage notes

  • complain vs complaint: complain is the verb (I’d like to complain); complaint is the noun (I’d like to make a complaint).
  • sorry, two meanings: I’m sorry to bother you softens your own request; I’m sorry about that is how the other person apologises. Both are everyday complaint language.
  • BrE vs AmE: British I’d like to return this / a refund, please; American I’d like to return this / get my money back. Both are understood everywhere.
  • faulty / defective / dodgy: faulty and defective are neutral and safe in writing; dodgy is informal British for “not reliable” — fine when speaking, not in a formal letter.

Example sentences

Play each line and say it aloud. These are the exact phrases you will use when something goes wrong.

  1. I'm sorry to bother you, but I have a problem.
    The all-purpose soft opener.
  2. Excuse me, I think there's been a mistake with my bill.
    Softener for a wrong charge.
  3. I'm afraid this isn't working.
    'I'm afraid' keeps a complaint polite.
  4. There's a problem with my order.
    Blame the problem, not the person.
  5. My parcel hasn't arrived yet.
    Present perfect + yet for something still missing.
  6. I was charged twice for one item.
    Reporting a billing error.
  7. The screen is cracked and the button is broken.
    Describing a faulty product.
  8. It stopped working after two days.
    Saying when the problem started.
  9. Could you replace it, please?
    Asking for a replacement.
  10. Would it be possible to get a refund?
    A softer way to ask for your money back.
  11. I'd like to exchange this for a larger size.
    Asking for an exchange.
  12. Could you fix it or send someone to repair it?
    Asking for a repair.
  13. Is there anything you can do to help?
    Asking once more after a 'no'.
  14. Could I speak to the manager, please?
    Escalating one polite step.
  15. I'd like to make a formal complaint.
    Putting the complaint on record.
  16. I've already called twice about this.
    Stating the history calmly.
  17. This is the third time it has broken.
    Pressing the point with facts, not insults.
  18. Thank you for sorting this out so quickly.
    Thanking them when it is fixed.
  19. Could I have that in writing, please?
    Asking for confirmation of the fix.
  20. I appreciate your help with this.
    A warm, polite close.

Recap card for the English complaints lesson showing open softly, say the problem, ask for a fix, escalate calmly

Quick recap before you practise.

How to say it

A few complaint words trip up English learners — copy the audio, not the spelling.

  • receipt sounds like “ri-SEET” — the p is silent.
  • refund (the noun) stresses the first part: “REE-fund”.
  • faulty sounds like “FAWL-tee” — the l is light but there.
  • apologise / apologize stresses the second part: “a-POL-o-jize”.

Practice

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Complaints practice

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1 Which opening is the most polite way to start a complaint?
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I'm sorry to bother you, but there's a problem. — A softener invites the listener to help; blame or orders put them on the defensive.

Hint: goes at the end, with the present perfect

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yet — Use 'yet' for something expected that has not happened: hasn't arrived yet.

Hint: your money back

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refund — A refund is your money back; 'Would it be possible to…?' makes the request soft.

4 The first answer is no. What is the best next step?
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Could I speak to the manager, please? — Escalate one calm step: politely ask for someone more senior.

5 Put the words in order to ask for a replacement.

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Could you replace it please — Polite requests use 'Could you…?' + base verb, with 'please' at the end.

6 Match each fix to its meaning.

  • refund
  • replacement
  • repair
  • exchange
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  • refund → your money back
  • replacement → a new one of the same thing
  • repair → they fix the one you have
  • exchange → swap for a different one

Ask for the exact outcome you want.

Quiz

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Complaints and problems quiz

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  1. 1Which sentence blames the problem, not the person?
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    There's a problem with my order. — Describe the problem neutrally so the person wants to help.

  2. 2In a complaint, 'I'm afraid this isn't working' means…
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    I regret to say it is not working — 'I'm afraid' is a politeness word that softens bad news.

  3. 3Complete: 'My parcel ___ arrived yet.'
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    hasn't — Present perfect + yet: hasn't arrived yet, for something still missing.

  4. 4Which is the polite way to ask for a refund?
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    Would it be possible to get a refund? — A softening frame plus the noun 'a refund' is polite and clear.

  5. 5You are unhappy with a product and feel tired of it. You are…
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    bored — A person feels 'bored'; a thing that causes it is 'boring'.

  6. 6Which escalation stays polite?
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    Could I speak to the manager, please? — Ask calmly for someone senior; threats and insults end the conversation.

  7. 7Choose the correct phrase for a wrong bill.
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    I think there's been a mistake with my bill. — 'I think there's been a mistake' is neutral and polite for billing errors.

  8. 8You want them to fix the item you own. You ask for a…
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    repair — A repair means they fix the item you already have.

  9. 9Which sentence uses the right preposition for duration?
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    It hasn't worked for two days. — Use 'for' with a length of time: for two days.

  10. 10The problem is fixed. What is a natural close?
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    Thank you for sorting this out. — Thank the person when the issue is resolved — it keeps goodwill.

Recap cheat-sheet

Step Pattern Example
Open softly I’m sorry to bother you, but… …there’s a problem.
Say the problem There’s a problem with… / It isn’t working My order is wrong.
Say what you want Could you…? / I’d like…, please Could you replace it?
Escalate calmly Could I speak to the manager? …make a formal complaint.
Close Thank you for sorting this out. I appreciate your help.

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